Single Supermama

because seriously, what the hell will I do if I can’t laugh about it?

do it sisters

When my sister and I were young, my dad wrote a holiday letter. It said that my sister and I had become the "do-it sisters." I was YOU do it, and my little sister was MY do it. Ironically, my own daughters are turning out the same way. Joy would be ...

daycare

Clara's turning one next month, and it's about time for me to get serious about daycare. The nanny thing is getting too hard. For one, it's not consistent enough (they get sick, Clara gets sick, things come up). For another, it's really expensive (over a thousand dollars a month). And ...

french kissing

While I was changing Clara's diaper yesterday, she gazed intently into my eyes. She gently grabbed my face behind the ears, and as she pulled my face close enough to hers that I could smell the milk on her breath, she tilted her head to the side just like in ...

thank you very much

Why having a baby is, in some ways, better than having a husband:These days, I put Clara in a laundry basket full of toys right outside the (open) bathroom door while I shower. That way, I can poke my head out after the shampoo, after the conditioner, after shaving each ...

not saying mama

The baby has started saying "mama mama mamamamamama"!! But I have no proof -- this is one of several attempts where I try to get her to say mama and she eats the camera instead.

Baby’s Life

She cries and cries and cries and cries... and then falls asleep.

Mermaid

Miss Clara, who is 3 months old and sleeps on my arm at night, starting squirming at FOUR O'CLOCK this morning. Enough that I didn't totally wake up, but I wasn't really sleeping either. Squirm, squirm, squirm. For two hours. Finally, at 6:00 I gave up. I sat up in ...

Squeaks and Creaks

People with babies can tell you where every creak in their floor is. And which doors squeak as they are trying to be invisible, backing away from the crib and the sleeping monster, I mean baby, inside of it...

glad to be child-free

i have a friend who is married, but on the fence about having children. she called the other day to say she was passing by on her way home from the gym, and could she stop by to see the new baby? it was 7:00 pm (so i was already ...

sour milk

for days i've been randomly smelling sour milk. you may know it the smell - it's a lot like puke but sort of sweet. i sniffed the bed, the couch, the baby's neck (in case it was dried up in there like it does sometimes), the blankies... and then i ...

January 20th 2010
Tags: reading No Comments

bedtime stories

For several months now, Clara has sat on the couch every night for her bedtime story - smushed directly between Kelley and mommy. But even though she's made sure that Kelley is sitting in his correct spot next to her and that he's positioned properly for cuddling, she has strictly ...
December 15th 2009
Tags: family, hapless One Comment

happy holidays

Well, we've survived half of the holidays so far with four kids between us who have different parentage on either side (his 2 grown-up kids have different moms, mine have different dads) - plus our 3 different sets of parents. Plus mine celebrate 2 religions. Thanksgivings. Check. Hanukkah. Check. Christmases still to come...
November 24th 2009
Tags: family 2 Comments

thankful

I am so thankful I can hardly bear it. I'm thankful for my beautiful girls who I love more than I ever knew I was capable of. I'm thankful for a family unique and different - full of steps and halfs and ex'es and inlaws and outlaws that just feels like plain ...
November 6th 2009
Tags: giving, kidssaythedarndestthings 2 Comments

you have such a caring heart

These are the notes my sweet Joy made this morning to pass out to her friends. I adore that girl.
November 2nd 2009
Tags: family, sleep 3 Comments

tight quarters

I have a full size bed. Which is slightly (and I do mean slightly) larger than a twin bed. For the past couple of years, there have been many mornings when all three of us girls have woken up in my bed together - Joy and I on either edge, and ...

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