December 27th 2008
Tags:
bad mom,
parenting
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OK, alright, I give. I have GOT to get better at discipline. Okay, Okay!! I have to figure out how to do ANY discipline at all. Joy has always been a sweet, kindhearted child. And I guess I've been lazy. I've assumed that she will always be sweet, and that... ...
October 30th 2008
Tags:
bad mom,
food
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Every day, I constantly count the ways in which I am a bad mom.I'm short-tempered when I wish I could be more patient. I have to work and have my kids in childcare, so they're largely being brought up by someone that isn't me. I don't have time to feed ...
Actual quotes from Joy at bedtime tonight, screamed at the top of her lungs from her bedroom (no exaggeration necessary, taken straight from the mouth of the 7-year-old):Today is the BADDEST day of my LIFE, being with you.It just doesn't seem like you're the perfect mommy.I HAD to scream, you ...
Joy is painfully shy - and first days are always the hardest. Aren't they for all of us? Day camp started this week, and I thought I did an OK job of preparation. We had a new "cool" bag, a new swimsuit, a new towel. Her name was written in ...
June 13th 2008
Tags:
bad mom
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Yesterday I sent Clara to daycare without her shoes. When I picked her up, I idly wondered what they had done with her shoes... then I realized I never actually put them on her feet in the first place. But they'd been too kind to say anything (I think I ...
March 18th 2008
Tags:
bad mom
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I'm losing my shit, my cool, my perspective, my illusion of control. I'm in what Anne Lamott would call my "bad mind." I wish that I could predict when the crazy was coming, when it was going to wash over me and make me feel like I'm drowning. I'm just ...
March 9th 2008
Tags:
bad mom
7 Comments
I've always wanted to implement a 'bad mom award' contest (of which I am always the winner, of course). Not because I really think any of us are truly bad moms, but because sometimes I think that talking about it just makes us all feel a little bit better. Like, ...