Single Supermama

because seriously, what the hell will I do if I can’t laugh about it?

who’s the boss

OK, alright, I give. I have GOT to get better at discipline. Okay, Okay!! I have to figure out how to do ANY discipline at all. Joy has always been a sweet, kindhearted child. And I guess I've been lazy. I've assumed that she will always be sweet, and that... ...

bad mom buffet

Every day, I constantly count the ways in which I am a bad mom.I'm short-tempered when I wish I could be more patient. I have to work and have my kids in childcare, so they're largely being brought up by someone that isn't me. I don't have time to feed ...

bedtime quotes

Actual quotes from Joy at bedtime tonight, screamed at the top of her lungs from her bedroom (no exaggeration necessary, taken straight from the mouth of the 7-year-old):Today is the BADDEST day of my LIFE, being with you.It just doesn't seem like you're the perfect mommy.I HAD to scream, you ...

first days stink

Joy is painfully shy - and first days are always the hardest. Aren't they for all of us? Day camp started this week, and I thought I did an OK job of preparation. We had a new "cool" bag, a new swimsuit, a new towel. Her name was written in ...

under the radar

Yesterday I sent Clara to daycare without her shoes. When I picked her up, I idly wondered what they had done with her shoes... then I realized I never actually put them on her feet in the first place. But they'd been too kind to say anything (I think I ...

bad mind

I'm losing my shit, my cool, my perspective, my illusion of control. I'm in what Anne Lamott would call my "bad mind." I wish that I could predict when the crazy was coming, when it was going to wash over me and make me feel like I'm drowning. I'm just ...

bad mom award

I've always wanted to implement a 'bad mom award' contest (of which I am always the winner, of course). Not because I really think any of us are truly bad moms, but because sometimes I think that talking about it just makes us all feel a little bit better. Like, ...

January 20th 2010
Tags: reading No Comments

bedtime stories

For several months now, Clara has sat on the couch every night for her bedtime story - smushed directly between Kelley and mommy. But even though she's made sure that Kelley is sitting in his correct spot next to her and that he's positioned properly for cuddling, she has strictly ...
December 15th 2009
Tags: family, hapless One Comment

happy holidays

Well, we've survived half of the holidays so far with four kids between us who have different parentage on either side (his 2 grown-up kids have different moms, mine have different dads) - plus our 3 different sets of parents. Plus mine celebrate 2 religions. Thanksgivings. Check. Hanukkah. Check. Christmases still to come...
November 24th 2009
Tags: family 2 Comments

thankful

I am so thankful I can hardly bear it. I'm thankful for my beautiful girls who I love more than I ever knew I was capable of. I'm thankful for a family unique and different - full of steps and halfs and ex'es and inlaws and outlaws that just feels like plain ...
November 6th 2009
Tags: giving, kidssaythedarndestthings 2 Comments

you have such a caring heart

These are the notes my sweet Joy made this morning to pass out to her friends. I adore that girl.
November 2nd 2009
Tags: family, sleep 3 Comments

tight quarters

I have a full size bed. Which is slightly (and I do mean slightly) larger than a twin bed. For the past couple of years, there have been many mornings when all three of us girls have woken up in my bed together - Joy and I on either edge, and ...

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