Single Supermama

because seriously, what the hell will I do if I can’t laugh about it?

i’m going to get MARRIED

Check this out. This post right here that you are reading? It has two tags. One of them is dating. And one of them is family. You might not be a data geek like me and fully appreciate the DEPTH of that in a venn diagram kind of a way. ...

head over dishes

I know these posts are all out of order, but I can hardly keep my head on straight these days. Maybe next I'll post about our third date. I am completely head over heels in love. The man does dishes. Completely of his own volition, while mumbling something like, "it's teamwork ...

an eight year old’s mind

Conversation between Joy and her best friend, in the back seat of her step-mom's car: Joy: You know that guy that was with my mom? BFF: I know Joy: Well, he's my mom's boyfriend BFF: What?!?!? I thought they were just friends! Joy: Hardly

The “Good Man Club”

I had an extra half hour to kill on a Tuesday evening, and my laptop in bed. A friend had recently told me about a dating site she found, and I thought I'd check it out to see what the fuss was all about. I didn't type in any information ...

unexpected and wonderful

Of all the unexpected things to have happen in the midst of this mess of a month... I went on a date. Of the variety where there is a boy and a girl and some kind of mutual activity that you meet and do together. I wasn't going to do ...

making a list and checking it twice

A few months back, Ms. Single Mama sent a tweet to another dating mom that really hit home for me. She said, "Do you find you choose the men you date or are they choosing you?" Wow. That was eye opening. I've been asked on dates. I can't remember ever ...

my own hope

The fact that I'm not dating right now, or even thinking about dating in the near future, has given me some space to think that I have needed for a very long time. It's given me room to consider some important things about myself, about what is important to me, ...

my love life (or, never say never)

If I have learned nothing else in my rocky life so far, it's never to say never. However. I am never going to date again. It's just a mess! Since my divorce, I've only seriously dated three men (if you can even call it serious). The first man I had been friends ...

trashy romance

It's somewhat possible that I have been reading too many trashy romance novels as of late. Last week, I found a trampoline for sale on craigslist - and bought it for Joy's birthday. When I called the number that was listed, a sexy-sounding man answered. He sounded just a little bit ...

Learning Curves and Adjustments

I haven't written much over the last few weeks... because I've been dating a special someone for a little over a month now. So that last 22.4 minutes of the day that I used to use for blogging before I collapsed into bed, is now instead being used for phone ...

January 20th 2010
Tags: reading No Comments

bedtime stories

For several months now, Clara has sat on the couch every night for her bedtime story - smushed directly between Kelley and mommy. But even though she's made sure that Kelley is sitting in his correct spot next to her and that he's positioned properly for cuddling, she has strictly ...
December 15th 2009
Tags: family, hapless One Comment

happy holidays

Well, we've survived half of the holidays so far with four kids between us who have different parentage on either side (his 2 grown-up kids have different moms, mine have different dads) - plus our 3 different sets of parents. Plus mine celebrate 2 religions. Thanksgivings. Check. Hanukkah. Check. Christmases still to come...
November 24th 2009
Tags: family 2 Comments

thankful

I am so thankful I can hardly bear it. I'm thankful for my beautiful girls who I love more than I ever knew I was capable of. I'm thankful for a family unique and different - full of steps and halfs and ex'es and inlaws and outlaws that just feels like plain ...
November 6th 2009
Tags: giving, kidssaythedarndestthings 2 Comments

you have such a caring heart

These are the notes my sweet Joy made this morning to pass out to her friends. I adore that girl.
November 2nd 2009
Tags: family, sleep 3 Comments

tight quarters

I have a full size bed. Which is slightly (and I do mean slightly) larger than a twin bed. For the past couple of years, there have been many mornings when all three of us girls have woken up in my bed together - Joy and I on either edge, and ...

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