Single Supermama

because seriously, what the hell will I do if I can’t laugh about it?

my mother’s day card

I'm pretty darned sure this is the best card I've ever received in my life (Joy made it for me at school). Also, I think she might have inherited my sweet tooth, but I'm not sure. Dear Mom You are as sweet as a cookie! You are as marvelous as chocolate! You are as ...

an israeli mother

I don't actually know how to cope with being a mother sometimes - this feeling of having my heart outside of my body, and the feeling of unity with other mothers around the world. Sometimes I'm not entirely comfortable with it.I heard this story on NPR this afternoon, and I ...

jazz it up

I am a weary, run down mommy. And this morning I made the mistake of looking in the mirror as I passed it - where I realized that I look like... a weary, run down mommy.I know I would feel at least a little bit better if I at least ...

being the mom

what it means to be the mom when the kids are sick:sleeping sitting up in bed with a cricked neck while holding the child allllll nighttaking an inordinate number of days off of worktyping one-handednot showeringkeeping track of and force feeding lots of medicationspanicking about temperatures (104.6!?) and weight loss ...

mother’s day

During the first years, holidays as a single mom were really hard. Especially mother's day and birthdays. There's no breakfast in bed or sleeping in. No help with the laundry or break from diaper changes... but I'm finally getting the idea of how to enjoy the holidays instead of wallowing ...

the grass across the fence

OK boys and girls (but mostly girls), I have a little theory. I think we're all wasting precious time being jealous of each other. Mrs. Flinger interviewed me on Mamaspod last week, for a show about "The Mommy Wars." It's about the working vs. stay-at-home mom debate. But I think ...

thank god for moms

OK ok ok, it's going to be OK. Just so nobody thinks I'm going to slit my wrists or anything. I just got a good old-fashioned mom pep talk, and I'm back on the saddle. I'm almost over the hump. I can do this!I think I can. I think I ...

not saying mama

The baby has started saying "mama mama mamamamamama"!! But I have no proof -- this is one of several attempts where I try to get her to say mama and she eats the camera instead.

potty talk

When I had my first baby, I went to one of my first mommy's health check-ups. The doctors basically look at your most private parts as though they were as uninteresting as your nose, and ask you questions so personal your own husband wouldn't have the guts to ask you.One ...

turning in my badge

This is one of those days where I don't think I can do it after all. But where do you go to turn in a mommy badge? Who accepts these darned things anyway?

January 20th 2010
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bedtime stories

For several months now, Clara has sat on the couch every night for her bedtime story - smushed directly between Kelley and mommy. But even though she's made sure that Kelley is sitting in his correct spot next to her and that he's positioned properly for cuddling, she has strictly ...
December 15th 2009
Tags: family, hapless One Comment

happy holidays

Well, we've survived half of the holidays so far with four kids between us who have different parentage on either side (his 2 grown-up kids have different moms, mine have different dads) - plus our 3 different sets of parents. Plus mine celebrate 2 religions. Thanksgivings. Check. Hanukkah. Check. Christmases still to come...
November 24th 2009
Tags: family 2 Comments

thankful

I am so thankful I can hardly bear it. I'm thankful for my beautiful girls who I love more than I ever knew I was capable of. I'm thankful for a family unique and different - full of steps and halfs and ex'es and inlaws and outlaws that just feels like plain ...
November 6th 2009
Tags: giving, kidssaythedarndestthings 2 Comments

you have such a caring heart

These are the notes my sweet Joy made this morning to pass out to her friends. I adore that girl.
November 2nd 2009
Tags: family, sleep 3 Comments

tight quarters

I have a full size bed. Which is slightly (and I do mean slightly) larger than a twin bed. For the past couple of years, there have been many mornings when all three of us girls have woken up in my bed together - Joy and I on either edge, and ...

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