Single Supermama

because seriously, what the hell will I do if I can’t laugh about it?

what i do for fun

I had the privilege of chatting recently with a smart, amazing and successful businesswoman, who finds herself on the precipice of having children with her husband. During our conversation, she asked me a few questions about what it's like to be a working mom. She asked me a question that ...

thank god for mornings and fresh starts

Many nights I go to bed, exhausted, thinking that I can't possibly pull this business off for one more day. The job, the kids, the house, the chores, all of it. But lo and behold. I wake up the next morning and put one foot in front of the other, ...

nervous breakdown

I am having a nervous breakdown. I know, I'm always having a nervous breakdown. But this time it's for real. I know, I know, it's always for real. It's money. I don't have enough by a long-shot. And I'm beyond the panic point. Seriously, I should have panicked about 2 years ...

who’s the boss

OK, alright, I give. I have GOT to get better at discipline. Okay, Okay!! I have to figure out how to do ANY discipline at all. Joy has always been a sweet, kindhearted child. And I guess I've been lazy. I've assumed that she will always be sweet, and that... ...

working parents

I recently went out to dinner with some of my oldest and dearest friends. We've been friends since school, and we maintain a tradition of getting together several times a year for our birthdays - come hell or high water, marriages, divorces, deaths, new jobs, babies - we make it ...

second grade separation

Joy started second grade today.When she started preschool, she cried and cried and cried. "No more teacher Wendy!" she pleaded, EVERY. GOD-LOVING. DAY.When she started kindergarten, I was the ONLY mother who had to physically pry her child from her body and sneak away.In first grade, we started going over ...

working mom’s dilemna

I have to start this post by saying that I love the woman that takes care of Clara. She watches her 3 days a week, and she is my savior. Previously, Clara was in a baby-factory that literally gave me nightmares. There were about 12 snotty, crying toddlers per 18-year-old ...

doing it all

The name of my blog, supermama, is meant to be a joke. It's tongue-in-cheek. Because I know that it is actually completely impossible to DO IT ALL when you're a parent, and it's definitely impossible to do it all WELL.This last week or two, my business has been even busier ...

first days stink

Joy is painfully shy - and first days are always the hardest. Aren't they for all of us? Day camp started this week, and I thought I did an OK job of preparation. We had a new "cool" bag, a new swimsuit, a new towel. Her name was written in ...

teaching good values

How do you talk to your kids about tough topics like homelessness and charity?We often pass people in our car who are holding cardboard signs, asking for change or jobs or food. For several years now, Joy has asked about this - and I honestly am at a bit of ...

January 20th 2010
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bedtime stories

For several months now, Clara has sat on the couch every night for her bedtime story - smushed directly between Kelley and mommy. But even though she's made sure that Kelley is sitting in his correct spot next to her and that he's positioned properly for cuddling, she has strictly ...
December 15th 2009
Tags: family, hapless One Comment

happy holidays

Well, we've survived half of the holidays so far with four kids between us who have different parentage on either side (his 2 grown-up kids have different moms, mine have different dads) - plus our 3 different sets of parents. Plus mine celebrate 2 religions. Thanksgivings. Check. Hanukkah. Check. Christmases still to come...
November 24th 2009
Tags: family 2 Comments

thankful

I am so thankful I can hardly bear it. I'm thankful for my beautiful girls who I love more than I ever knew I was capable of. I'm thankful for a family unique and different - full of steps and halfs and ex'es and inlaws and outlaws that just feels like plain ...
November 6th 2009
Tags: giving, kidssaythedarndestthings 2 Comments

you have such a caring heart

These are the notes my sweet Joy made this morning to pass out to her friends. I adore that girl.
November 2nd 2009
Tags: family, sleep 3 Comments

tight quarters

I have a full size bed. Which is slightly (and I do mean slightly) larger than a twin bed. For the past couple of years, there have been many mornings when all three of us girls have woken up in my bed together - Joy and I on either edge, and ...

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