Single Supermama

because seriously, what the hell will I do if I can’t laugh about it?

the good life

I've gotta say... I have the good life. These days I am appreciating my evenings with the girls, after dinner and before bedtime. I am loving having enough time to (mostly) keep up with laundry and cleaning. And at the end of the day... when the girls are in bed... ...

working parents

I recently went out to dinner with some of my oldest and dearest friends. We've been friends since school, and we maintain a tradition of getting together several times a year for our birthdays - come hell or high water, marriages, divorces, deaths, new jobs, babies - we make it ...

supermarket hottie

Here's one reason I may never successfully convince anyone of the opposite sex to date me. There was a hot guy at the grocery store this morning (I'm told this is a good place to meet decent men). The first time I noticed him was in the health food section, ...

working mom’s dilemna

I have to start this post by saying that I love the woman that takes care of Clara. She watches her 3 days a week, and she is my savior. Previously, Clara was in a baby-factory that literally gave me nightmares. There were about 12 snotty, crying toddlers per 18-year-old ...

intimate connections

So... it occurs to me that my issue with the coffee guy is just that I really wish I could connect with someone intimately. Not like THAT. Well, OK, like that, too. But mostly I want to emotionally and mentally connect with someone on a deep level. And so maybe ...

single parenting at the dentist

If you ever wondered what it's like - I mean, on a day to day basis - to co parent with somebody who you only knew for a few months before you got pregnant, let me just give you a little example. Like a day in the life.Clara had her ...

that half hour

I am actually sort of settling into the single life these days. And not in a superficial "just say it and smile" sort of a way. I really am starting to enjoy just being our little nuclear family in a lot of ways. Now that Clara is one year old, ...

inspiration

Just when I am most desperate for a pick-me-up, I find an inspirational blog; someone else out there who is going through similar situations and thriving. Thank you, internet!How To Date a Single Mom, Part 3 - Ms. Single Mama is dating a man who's crazy about her and her ...

hear me roar

One of the advantages of being single these past years is that by necessity, I have become more handy.I've learned how to take apart and fix a washing machine (I printed out a 10-page how-to from the internet, what did people do before the internet?). I've been in charge of ...

debt management

I have a new personal banker who called from my bank yesterday. She just started at my bank, and she used to be a single mom herself. The best part is that she is familiar with my financial situation (which is enough to send someone into a deep depression) and ...

January 20th 2010
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bedtime stories

For several months now, Clara has sat on the couch every night for her bedtime story - smushed directly between Kelley and mommy. But even though she's made sure that Kelley is sitting in his correct spot next to her and that he's positioned properly for cuddling, she has strictly ...
December 15th 2009
Tags: family, hapless One Comment

happy holidays

Well, we've survived half of the holidays so far with four kids between us who have different parentage on either side (his 2 grown-up kids have different moms, mine have different dads) - plus our 3 different sets of parents. Plus mine celebrate 2 religions. Thanksgivings. Check. Hanukkah. Check. Christmases still to come...
November 24th 2009
Tags: family 2 Comments

thankful

I am so thankful I can hardly bear it. I'm thankful for my beautiful girls who I love more than I ever knew I was capable of. I'm thankful for a family unique and different - full of steps and halfs and ex'es and inlaws and outlaws that just feels like plain ...
November 6th 2009
Tags: giving, kidssaythedarndestthings 2 Comments

you have such a caring heart

These are the notes my sweet Joy made this morning to pass out to her friends. I adore that girl.
November 2nd 2009
Tags: family, sleep 3 Comments

tight quarters

I have a full size bed. Which is slightly (and I do mean slightly) larger than a twin bed. For the past couple of years, there have been many mornings when all three of us girls have woken up in my bed together - Joy and I on either edge, and ...

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